I am reaffirming my long held belief that everyone should live in the city at some point, at least for a little while.
In a few weeks, I will have lived here for an entire year, and I still feel like a NYC rookie. After moving to a new neighborhood, a decidedly more quiet/family/practically suburban area better known as the Upper West Side, I feel like I am experiencing the city for the first time again. Everything around me is new!
For instance, I'm going on a first date later tonight, meeting only for drinks. The idea of meeting just for drinks before I moved here seemed like a cop out, but now it seems like the best, and only, appropriate option. I can no longer imagine the horror, HORROR, of sitting through an entire meal with someone until after pre-screening them in a commitment-free, drinks-only meeting.
Should the initial date lead to dinner later on tonight or otherwise, then so be it. Who buys before they test drive anyway?
But when this guy asked where in my neighborhood we should meet for drinks, he was greeted with a less than sexy and smooth, Ughhhh... Well.... I did mention I JUST moved here, right? That's what google is for! Luckily he's practically a professional Manhattanite with a full 3 years experience in the city, so within seconds he was able to pluck the name of a date worthy wine bar that happens to be only blocks from my new place.
With enough restaurants and bars to try, not even mentioning the endless options for concerts, shows, museum exhibits and other activities, it's a wonder that I ever even spend time at my insanely overpriced apartment. Yet strangely, that's all just part of the allure that is this great, wonderful, center-of-the-universe city. For now, there isn't anywhere I'd rather be.
JLH